How Do I Grow Up?

Having my graduation day just months out makes my now self very on edge. Even the days that I feel on top of things, the future unknown future looms over me. 

So how do I prepare myself for the real world?

I have a few tips that most people entering the workforce should keep in mind.

1.) Not Everyone is The Same

        Something I find constantly having to remind myself is that my friends and I are not the same. We come from different backgrounds, have different majors, and different work experience. Comparing myself to my friends only puts me behind. Knowing someone who has a job already for post grad, just means they're having a different experience than you are. 

2.) The Present Matters Most

        I find myself very worried over what the future holds. Sometimes it clouds the kinds of opportunities and fun I am having in the moment. Every now and then I think about how every step cannot just be planned out and the best thing you can do for yourself is enjoy the process.

3.) Rejection is Learning

        I have had many friends who have already been to numerous interviews and are let down by rejection. While rejection can sting, it is only bringing you closer to a better path. 

I am always asking, "how do I grow up?". There is no one specific way to go through life and that includes post grad plans. If you are having a similar experience, give yourself some grace. I know sometimes that's all I need to get through another day.